Find out who your friends are

Whats been on my mind...

Lately, I've been thinking about how people interpret other peoples actions. How they judge them, or wrong them without even really asking the person to their face the truth or their thoughts and feelings.

nope...

they just judge and gossip and gossip to rumors and rumors to all your "friends" talking crap about you behind your back.

It's not a great feeling..

Whatever was there just feels fake anymore.

You do what you can to occupy time and avoid it.

 Try to forget about the "good ol' days" and "friends till the end"

its over... so you get over it...

There comes a point in your life when you realize who really matters, who never did, and who always will.

"wanna see who your real friends are? Screw up and see who sticks around for you!"

that's a quote that's very simple and is definitely true come to find out.

I'm not gonna sit around and mope about this, surely I'm not. Because I know I can learn from this.
God has His own special ways of teaching me new things.

And from that, there is Joy and Peace in the time of hardships.

So from this I decided that I will think first before the thought of wrongly judging somebody comes to mind. Understand that all people make mistakes sometimes and there's a story behind everything.

Who am I to judge!?
Surely I'm not.. 

The only One who is to judge me is my Father in Heaven.

So why should I care about what other people think or say when they don't even care to ask about it?
like Dr. Seuss said...

"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind."

Although I'm talking of a personal experience of mine. This literally relates to anything! Like peoples choices in their life, what vehicle they want, what dog they have, and other silly things or much more serious things!! It also things like keeping your freaking opinion to yourself! It's your own thoughts and everyone's are different! Sure It's Ok to have an opinion, but don't think people you need to make rules from it for others to follow! 

that's what bugs me...

"A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out."

I have a friend that knows everything about me and loves me just the same. I can say whatever I want to and has never once judged me, was jealous, or thought what I wanted to do was stupid or pointless.

Instead, she encouraged me, was excited for me, or was there for me in my times of struggle.
God blessed me with a friend like her.

In return, I want to encourage her in all she wants to do and wish to be there for her in her times of struggle..

If I ever had a sister, It think this definitely what it should be like.

At this point, I'm ready to move on from where I have been. To be me at my fullest, and be around people who bring out the best in me as well.

Find out who your true friends are.